Mastering the Perfect Selfie

Of all the social media trends out there, selfies has proved to be one of the most long-lasting trends of our time. The first selfie ever was believed to have been taken in October of 1839 by a man named Cornelius.

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This “selfie” is clearly very different from the selfies we see today on social media. Selfies today are taken much closer to the face, and, at least in my case, require a generous amount of makeup to be applied prior. Getting that perfect selfie can be much more difficult than it seems, so I have included several steps that are essential to mastering “selfie-taking.

Find a good background

Finding a good background can be pretty difficult. I always try to stand or sit against a white or nude wall. Using a plain wall brings more attention to you in the selfie and makes your picture look cleaner and more put together. Finding a plain background that also offers some natural light is even better. Natural light brightens your face and makes the picture appear clearer and less grainy.

Decide if you are taking a group selfie or individual selfie

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If you are taking a group selfie versus an individual selfie, how you actually take the picture is going to be different. In taking a group selfie, depending on how many people are in the selfie, you have to decide who is going to take the picture to get the best angle. For three people, the person in the middle should take the picture so everyone’s face is equally shown in the picture. For more than three people, a person on either end should take the picture by extending their arm and angling the camera so everyone is included in the shot. 

Get the perfect angle

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This definitely takes multiple tries. You need to test what angle makes your face look best which differs for everyone. Make sure you get your entire face in the picture, and take the picture from farther away from your face than you want it. You can always zoom in, but you can’t zoom out of the picture. Sometimes when posting on Instagram or Facebook the app may crop the picture weird so you want to make sure your entire face is still in the picture once it’s cropped.

Important tips

When taking your selfie, try to keep your chin parallel with the ground so you appear in your natural state and not stretching your neck upward or tilting your head downward.

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If you are taking group selfies, make sure everyone is close enough to one another so everyone is included in the picture and there are no awkward gaps in between people.

Lastly and most importantly, have fun with it and take a selfie that makes you feel good!! Be sure to post your selfie on your favorite social media site for the world to see!

Happy Selfie-ing!!  

Source: https://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/12/05/worlds-first-selfie-1839-robert-cornelius_n_4392804.html

Is “Un-Plugging” Really Possible?

Aly here! As the Director of Client Services and Communications, I usually don’t get the chance very often to contribute content on the MaxExposure Blog, however I recently took a short vacation and learned what a little relaxation can to for a person!

When it comes to relaxing, I don’t know too much about the word. I try to employ what I think the meaning of the word is, but I can never truly grasp the concept.

 

 

  • Watching TV with your Laptop, while answering emails or working on a project… NOT Relaxation
  • Adding a glass of wine to the mix, while watching TV and working on a project… NOT Relaxation
  • Checking your email while watching a movie with your family… NOT Relaxation
  • Going out to dinner with friends or family, but checking emails  & work texts and responding… NOT Relaxation

When you are an integral part of running a company, manage a staff, support customers, oversee Accounting & HR departments and manage the website, it can be difficult to un-plug and relax a little. Especially in todays world of instant & constant communication.

While I am permanently glued to my iPhone and thank the technology gods daily that I can pretty much do every job I have from it, it can be difficult to put it down especially when your goal is to provide the absolute highest customer service physically possible.

While on vacation, in Florida, this past week, I took some time to partially un-plug and even that little bit did absolute wonders. To help out my fellow Boss Babes (and Boss Dudes) out there who also want to keep up with work and be the best at their job but want to keep their sanity intact; I made note of the things I did, and will be repeating ONE day each month, to recharge that battery I too often use to the last drop before charging back up!

  1. I found my SMILE – Working non-stop, even doing something you love can wear you out. Its crucial to both your mental & physical health, as well as the health of your company, to take some time for yourself and find your smile if you feel you’ve lost it!
  2. I stayed connected but…One thing I’ve always struggled with is the need to get things done IMMEDIATELY which I know my clients are very grateful for that. However once in a while its important to remember that you can take an afternoon here and there to yourself. Still answer your phone, but let your customers know it will be taken care of ASAP, but might be tomorrow.
  3. I tried to NOT talk as much business – Working in a family business, like I do, this one is VERY tricky. As family vacations often double as business planing sessions and executive meeting time. Its important to make it clear to your family (& business partners) which times during the day you are “working” and which times you are “on vacation”. The beauty of being an entrepreneur is you can do BOTH in the same day!
  4. I enjoyed happy hour... Every day
  5. I Laughed… A LOT
  6. I shut down EVERY evening –not taking my work with me to watch TV with my family. I often find myself working most evenings as its a time when I can get other work done, that I didn’t have time to do during the day. But I’ve learned that working from your couch with a glass of wine, may LOOK like relaxing, but its still working!
  7. I was PRESENT – I often keep my phone on silent vibrate and have it on me at all times, but while on vacation I left it on ringer, inside the house and more often than not I lost track of it. This meant I wasn’t checking my email 85 times a minute, I wasn’t on Facebook or Instagram constantly refreshing or reading the news and I wasn’t texting with clients or friends. I was truly present, in the moment, and enjoyed EVERY. SINGLE. MINUTE of it!

By implementing these 7 things into my vacation, for the first time in YEARS, I was actually able to relax while on vacation. I hope these tips can help you too find some relaxation this holiday season and let you begin the New Year fully recharged and focused on your company goals!

Wishing you a wonderful holiday season, and a happy, healthy and prosperous New Year FULL of RELAXING vacations!

Aly Grushkin

Director of Client Services & Communications